Eating disorders with regards to Mental Health

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Food has been categorized as the most important thing in people’s lives. It has been the norm that one has to take food at least thrice in a day; breakfast, lunch and dinner ensuring that it is a balanced diet without the exception of proteins, carbohydrates and vegetables. Nutritious food plays a vital role in promotion of health and disease prevention.

Eating disorders in this case are described as illnesses that are characterized by irregular eating habits and severe distress or concern about weight or shape. Eating disorders are a range of conditions expressed through abnormal or disturbed eating habits.

Many are times we get hungry in between meal times and the option we have is to make a snack. Sometimes we end up making these snacks at wee hours of the night, say 12 am. by calling it a midnight snack .

There are currently six known eating disorders. Although most people assume that these disorders are common in the West. In this article however, we shall talk about the three most common.

The first being Anorexia Nervosa. Most people with Anorexia consider themselves overweight while in real sense they are underweight.

They tend to avoid certain food claiming they are watching on calories. However, with time, they tend to have thinning of bones, brittle hair and nails as side effects.

The other type is Bulimia Nervosa. People with bulimia frequently eat unusually large amounts of food in a relatively short period. They tend to binge eat food they normally avoid and due to the fear of gaining weight, they purge to compensate for the calories consumed.Some of the purging behaviors include a forced throw up and Extreme exercise.

Binge eating is the third type whereby people typically eat unusually large amounts of food in relatively short periods of time and usually feel a lack of control during binges. They often do not feel like they need to restrict themselves with the calories. People in this category are at a risk of getting medical complications like heart disease or diabetes.

Pica is another eating disorder that involves eating things that are not considered food. For instance chalk, soil and ice. People in this category may include pregnant women and people suffering from a mental illness.

In a research done in 2010, most people who were obese had a 55% increased risk of developing depression while people who are depressed had a 58% increased risk of being obese.

Another study done by Courtney Howard in 2004, tends to compare the prevalence of eating disorders in Western and non-Western countries has found that rates are lower in non-Western regions but are steadily rising. Hence, researchers attribute this to urbanization and changing social climates.

Stay tuned for part two of this.

Personal boundaries…

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Personal boundaries, are important because they set guidelines on how you should be treated by the people around you. Setting these boundaries does not necessarily mean you don’t want anything to do with them. It just means that you want your own space.

These boundaries consist of physical, mental and emotional boundaries. Physical to mean personal space, mental to mean thoughts and opinions while emotional boundaries deals with feelings.

A lot of people do not have the guts to say no whenever there’s a situation that requires a yes or no kind of response. Case and point being, saying no has been proved to be so hard especially when the person you want to say no to is your friend or someone close to you, say your relative.

We often want to feel like we don’t want to disappoint the people we care about by not accepting to do favors for them, forgetting that while doing that we are oppressing ourselves and we do not have the courage to speak up.

A simple yes can help you carry someone else’s burdens as a way of neglecting your own. This happens more so when you are suffering from mental health issues. You tend to ignore your own problems assuming they will go away miraculously. But do they really go away that easily? Or maybe they are just piling up.

Let’s take an instance where your friend borrows you some cash because he needs to pay rent and is short. Because you have been friends for too long, there’s no way you can say no. I mean it’s rent we are talking about here and if he does not pay, the house gets locked up.

You decide to send him the cash immediately and you get the ‘thank you, you are the best’ kind of response. You expect that he is going to refund the cash as soon as he gets it, so you decide not to pressure him.

A few weeks down the line, you don’t get a response about him planning to pay you back even if it is in bits. In fact, to make matters worse, he goes off on you and gets a new number.

All this can lead to one getting anxiety disorder which is a mental health disorder characterized by feelings of worry, anxiety or fear that are strong enough to interfere with one’s daily activities.

So when are you supposed to set personal boundaries? Whenever you feel like you are not comfortable with the favor because it might affect you in some way or it might inconvenience you.

It is Okay to say no when your mental health is put at risk. It is okay to say no whenever the yes will make you sacrifice a lot of things that are important.Boundaries are about speaking up for what you need and taking care of yourself when those needs aren’t met. The hard truth is: you don’t always get what you want but putting it out there gives you a fighting chance.

Part Two…

A typical dictionary would define mental health as a person’s condition with regard to their well being either emotionally or psychologically. But there has to be something more about this definition.

I am very sure, one doesn’t wake up one morning and consider themselves to be having a problem with their mental health. It is a process that takes very many months or even years. It happens when so many thoughts are jumbled up in your head and you feel like you cannot talk to anyone. These are moments where you just want to be alone in your little bubble.

As I was watching a clip on you tube some time back about mental health there was this line that struck me. “Mental illness is for whites. Africans don’t have this.” I was like wow, okay. Does that mean we are not human beings? Or maybe it’s just that we are afraid of talking about it.

How many people can just walk up to someone and say, you know what, I am suffering from this and I need help. And if you do, how will they respond? It is the typical you will be okay, just hold on? Maybe they will just listen without really knowing what to say exactly.

I know you are wondering well if that person is your close friend or maybe your close parent, then it shouldn’t be a problem because you talk on a daily basis about everything. But what if you really don’t know how to explain this feeling to someone else using the right words for them to be able to understand you.

My role model, Janet Mbugua, started hosting a show recently on NTV called Here and Now, and there was this episode on mental health and she said United Kingdom have a minister of Loneliness while United Arab Emirates have a Minister of Happiness. Is it something we need to adopt as a country?

A recent audit paints a picture of one psychologist for every 4.6 million Kenyans even as disorders around mental health afflict more citizens every year. Research has indicated that 20-25% of outpatients seeking primary medical healthcare have presented symptoms of mental illness.

The point to take home is, you do not have to go through all this alone. Get someone you really trust and talk about things whenever you feel sad, whenever you feel happy and whenever you have a mixture of thoughts or emotions. Just talk it out.

Let’s Get Straight To It…

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I do not consider myself old but in all my years of existence, I have gone through so many things I could probably write a book not less than 300 pages. Some things have made me cry, others have taught me a lesson, others have just made me tougher. But if I come to think about it, am I really as tough as I thought I was? Or maybe that is just the fantasy I created in my head because for a long time I have considered myself a strong and independent lady.

I know by now you are wondering what I am really talking about. Calm down we are not even halfway there. This is just the beginning. You might as well want to grab something. For the foodies out there like me, feel free to grab a snack or tea or coffee. Whatever suits you best.

I have always found myself writing down my thoughts and emotions in my journal when they become too much for me to handle. I end up feeling better for a couple of minutes but that pain never goes away. It’s like it has been engraved with a very deep ink in my soul like a tattoo.

I have been told before that I am a very bubbly person. I mean I love socializing so that hasn’t been hard for me. Considering most of my friends have a way of making me laugh in the middle of our conversations (shout out all my humorous friends.) Although, I don’t think I have friends who aren’t funny otherwise they wouldn’t be my friends.

But after the laughter, I am all alone in a very dark place. I do not think I can really find the right words to explain this to you very well. I mean I do not consider myself sad and boring because I love my own company. You know those people who can stay in the house for a whole week alone, with food of course, and a couple of movies and series. I am those people!

For the past few days I have been reading and watching some material on mental health. Not because I think I have a problem, but because I think it has become a menace that needs to be addressed. A lot of people have a lot of things bottled up and one day it just explodes on you and that is when reality hits you like; hol’ up, am I really okay? Do I need any sort of help by any chance? Do I need to talk to someone? And if I do, will I feel any better?

I started by saying I write a lot and I feel like that is where I am headed at this point. So I will leave part one here. Stay tuned for part two.

My First Blog Post

Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.

— Oscar Wilde.

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Let’s do this!

My name is Joanne Murugi but most people know me as Jojo. It has taken me long enough to start this journey of blogging but I am glad I did. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a step and this is mine. Mostly I will be talking about myself and some hobbies that have become part of my life. Forgive my vagueness but a girl has got to have suspense right?